bahasa inggris

2. ANGER

A. Definition of Anger
Anger is defined as a strong feeling of displeasure or hostility. Anger is mostly caused by something that you hate, or something done that you hate. An example of anger may be when your younger sibling messes with your things after you have told them countless times not to come in your room.
Another example may be if a teacher gives you a bad grade even though you stayed you all night studying. Even though these examples seem unimportant and temporary, some types of anger may last for years. An example of this may be if your brother stole your girlfriend. You may stay mad at your brother for years, yet with some help, you stop being angry, and start living a happy life again. From our research, we found that there are four steps to deal with anger.
The first step is to be aware of how you express anger. You may clench your teeth, raise your voice, or show a red face. In the second step, you have to make sure that you are physically and mentally safe from yourself. This is because some people enjoy throwing things around or banging there head against a wall. This is not healthy, you will take your anger and turn it into physical pain. The third step is to know what causes your anger. Some people get mad because of a dispute, discrimination.



B. Expressing of Anger
There are some other expressions you can use to show that you are angry, such as :
In Formal Situations In Informal Situations
I really hate… I can’t stand……
I’m extremely un happy about this. What displeasure!
I’m not pleased at all. Bloody hell!

Asking if someone is angry
 What’s the matter ?
 What happened ?
 What do you look so insulted about ?
 Why are you acting so insulted ?
 Did I insult you ?
 Are you angry about something ?
 Are you angry with me ?
 Whar are you so angry about ?

Calming someone down
 Relax. - Maybe you’re a little too sensitive about.
 Take it slow. - Don’t be so touchy’
 Take it easy. - Don’t be angry with me.
 Calm down. - Temper,temper.
 Control yourself. - Let’s try to hold our temper.
 Don’t be such a worrywart. - Don’t get hut under the collar.
 Don’t trouble yourself. - Getting angry won’t help.
 Don’t let it brother you.


C. Dialogue about Anger

Virga : Hi Denias. Do you know what has happened to Adib?
He’s been sacked. He is no longer the student of our school.
Denias : Adib Ismawan? The one who always wears black jacket?
Virga : Yes.
Denias : Oh. Once, he put rubbish in my locker and some pebbles into my bag.
Virga : He did? What a naughty boy. You know, he put a stown inside my bag and I din’t know when he did it.
Denias : What did you do then?
Virga : I reported it to the school principal.
Denias : What happened then?
Virga : He was punished.
Denias : He deserved harsh punisments.
Virga : Yes, he did.